Re: My Life HELP!!!

> To anyone willing to lend an ear or advice:
> I am 21 yrs old and pregnant for the 2nd time.To be honest, it is living
> hell!! My Fiancee is an awsome person most of the time, but somewhere along
> the line of this pregnancy I changed. I can't stand Steven (fiancee) even
> though I love him with all my heart.It seems to me that we are drifting
> farther apart. It is very depressing. I am a totally diffrent person than
> before . I use to care about everything. Now it is as if nothing else
> matters. My tolarence level with my 2yr old son is 0 sometimes below 0, and I
> am sick more so than with my first pregnancy. I have headaches all the time,
> and my laziness is worse than ever. I am constantly telling Steven to get out
> of my life and leave me alone. Really that is not what I want. Why are all of
> this things happening
>  Please Help a Weirded out Pregnant Fool
>                          Fallen Angel

Well, first of all, is your fiance helping you out at all?  I mean does he
help out with the toddler?  If you're home alone durning the day, and find
that your older child is getting on your nerves, maybe you should find a good
day care somewhere to let him go to for a few days a week, or even a few
hours each day.  That will give you the chance to get some rest, and get
yourself together.

Also, how far along are you?  When do you plan to marry?  These changes you
are feeling are only temporary.  You are having a MAJOR hormonal shift right
now that, unfortunately, will last for some time.  Some women even experience
it months after the baby is born (Post Pardem <sp> Depression).  But it will
pass...

If you truly love your fiance, and he truly loves you, you will find a way to
work past this.  I wish you luck, as well as lots of good rest...  From the
sound of things, you'll surely need it!  

Rogue
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