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Message   Wordsmith    mommy   My Life HELP!!!   August 22, 1996
 7:13 AM  

Re: My Life HELP!!!

> I am 21 yrs old and pregnant for the 2nd time.To be honest, it is living
> hell!! My Fiancee is an awsome person most of the time, but somewhere along
> the line of this pregnancy I changed. I can't stand Steven (fiancee) even
> though I love him with all my heart.It seems to me that we are drifting
> farther apart. It is very depressing. I am a totally diffrent person than
> before . I use to care about everything. Now it is as if nothing else
> matters. My tolarence level with my 2yr old son is 0 sometimes below 0, and I
> am sick more so than with my first pregnancy. I have headaches all the time,
> and my laziness is worse than ever. I am constantly telling Steven to get out
> of my life and leave me alone. Really that is not what I want. Why are all of
> this things happening

Girlfriend, call your OBGYN and ask for the phone number of some professional
help.  If you are having money problems, then there are many places <catholic
charities for instance, and you aren't required to be catholic> that offer
psychological assistance on a sliding scale according to what you can afford.
You could just be having hormonal swings, or you might actually be freaking
out over the prospect of being 21 and married with two kids.

It also sounds to me like you need to take a parenting class or two.  Those
are available through many different avenues.  You must TELL someone that you
have a problem and seek help for it.  For your sake, for Steven's sake, but
most of all for that two year old and his sibling.

                   \/\/ordsmith
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